Big Soso Speaks On Fight With Dede

The Big Brother Naija Season 10 house may be known for its drama, alliances, and emotional rollercoasters, but few moments have shaken the season like the clash between Sonia Amako, popularly known as Big Soso, and fellow housemate Dede. The incident, which happened on August 24, 2025, left fans divided and conversations heated across social media. Now, weeks after her eviction from the house, Big Soso has broken her silence and shared her side of the story in an interview on Yup Weekly Tea hosted by Princess.

During the interview, which also featured fellow evicted housemates Doris and Ivatar, Big Soso gave an emotional breakdown of what led to the explosive fight that quickly became one of the most talked-about events of the season. According to her, the tension between her and Dede had been simmering long before the argument that viewers saw on television. She explained that the spark was a comment Dede made when she referred to housemates Kola, Koyin, and Jason Jae as her “three fishes.” While many thought the remark was playful, Big Soso revealed that it struck a nerve because she considered those housemates her close friends and felt that Dede’s words were dismissive.

But the issue, she explained, went beyond the so-called fish comment. For Big Soso, the problem had been building up over repeated incidents that made her feel Dede was not a supportive presence in the house. One of her main frustrations came from the kitchen, a space she described as her safe haven. Big Soso, who clearly has a passion for cooking, spoke about how preparing food for the house brought her joy and a sense of connection. In her words, “The kitchen is a very safe place in the house. For somebody who loves to cook, you just want to be there. When you’re cooking, you’re putting all of your emotions into it. There’s this joy that comes. Even people who are angry with you, once they chop, everybody’s happy.”

She went on to say that on more than one occasion, Dede was paired with her for kitchen duties, but instead of helping, she often refused whenever she was asked to assist. This, Big Soso said, left her feeling unsupported and irritated, and over time, those small frustrations grew into a larger sense of disappointment with Dede’s attitude. By the time the fish comment happened, her patience had already worn thin.

According to her, even Dede’s close friend in the house, Mide, noticed the growing tension and advised her to confront the issue rather than let it fester. Acting on that advice, Big Soso said she approached Dede and tried to explain how she felt, telling her directly that she came across as unsupportive and self-centered. She recalled telling Dede, “I feel like you’re not supportive or a team player. You often put yourself first, and I don’t like that. Can you try to help out and be more inclusive?” Instead of opening the door for dialogue, she said Dede responded defensively, admitting that she was a selfish person. This admission, coupled with the dismissive tone, sent the conversation spiraling into a heated back-and-forth that quickly turned into one of the most fiery confrontations of the season.

Big Soso admitted that in the heat of the moment, her words may have been too sharp. Looking back, she confessed that some of the things she said could have been handled better. “Some of the things I said, I later thought were too strong. I apologised, not to be friends, but because the words were too harsh,” she said. She made it clear that the apology was not an attempt to mend fences with Dede but rather an acknowledgment that her delivery could have been kinder.

What stood out most from Big Soso’s reflections, however, was her belief that beauty extends far beyond physical appearance. In her view, true beauty lies in character, integrity, and inclusiveness. “Beauty to me is not just waking up, doing makeup, shining,” she explained. “It is also in your character. And if I don’t see that in you, I will advise you. If you don’t want to listen, you rest.” For her, Dede’s unwillingness to be part of the team and her tendency to put herself first clashed with those values, making it impossible for them to coexist peacefully in the house.

The fight between Big Soso and Dede has been described by both fans and fellow housemates as one of the most explosive and defining moments of the season. Beyond the shouting and insults, it reflected the complex dynamics of life in the Big Brother house, where personalities clash, alliances shift, and emotions run high under the constant gaze of the cameras. What seemed to the outside world like a sudden quarrel was, according to Big Soso, the result of built-up frustration, unmet expectations, and a clash of values.

Since leaving the house, Big Soso’s words have sparked fresh debates among fans about teamwork, respect, and selfishness in relationships. While some sympathise with her point of view and agree that Dede’s behaviour was inconsiderate, others argue that everyone in the house is under pressure and coping in their own ways, making conflicts inevitable. Whatever side people take, one thing is clear: the Big Soso and Dede fight has become one of the most memorable highlights of Big Brother Naija Season 10, reminding viewers that the show is not just about entertainment but also a reflection of human interactions under pressure.

Big Soso ended her reflections with a sense of closure, making it clear that she had moved past the drama even if the memories remained. She highlighted the importance of honesty, teamwork, and character in relationships, values she hopes will guide her both inside and outside the house.

For fans of Big Brother Naija, the clash is one more reminder that the show thrives on the raw, unfiltered emotions of its contestants. Beyond the glamour, parties, and competitions, it is these human stories of conflict, reconciliation, and personal growth that keep millions glued to their screens. And for Big Soso, her story with Dede will remain a defining chapter of her time in the house, one that revealed not just her temper but also her values and her commitment to staying true to herself.